Ask the doctor: How long does grief last?

Q. I lost my brother several months ago, and there are days when I still feel overpowered by sadness. Is it normal to grieve this long?

A. I'm sorry to learn of your loss. The brief answer to your question is that everyone grieves differently. Rarely does grief have a clear beginning, middle, and end, like hiking up a mountain and back down along a defined trail. And popular culture promotes the misconception that there is an orderly progression of emotions that will lead to "closure." This is also probably wrong for most people.

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